Beginnings are always messy.
~ John Galsworthy (Winner of the 1932 Nobel prize for literature)
If you have a dream you have yet to take action on, there's only one place to start, and that's at the beginning. The trouble with beginnings is that they often feel like going down a bone-jarring back-country road when what we really want is to be flying down the autobahn at mach speed.
We strike out towards our goal, only to find out there's a lot we don't know. We feel like a newborn foal wobbling around on spindly legs when we're more accustomed to feeling like a thoroughbred racing down the track.
Sometimes those first steps we take work, sometimes they're shaky, and sometimes they just go splat and we have to go back to the drawing board.
Face it. Beginnings are messy. And for most of us, that's an uncomfortable place to be.
Here's a revolutionary idea - when you try something new, don't fight it! Accept the messiness. Embrace it even. Don't make it personal. Beginnings are messy for everyone!
Create a new story around it. Rather than seeing it as a threat to your ego that likes to have everything under control and mastered, look at it as a big sandbox where you get to play, discover, and play some more based on what you learn.
You can organize and prepare to your heart's content (a great procrastination tool!), but as soon as you start taking actual steps, you'll discover that it's just not neat and tidy. Messiness is an inherent part of starting at the beginning.
Given that, doesn't it make sense to change your story so you can benefit from the richness of that messiness, rather than let it tense you up and slow you down?
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by Curt Rosengren, Passion Catalyst
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