My Passion Catalyst coaching clients come to me when it's time for a career change. Typically, they feel frustrated and stuck, and they want to make a change yesterday. Unfortunately, substantative change doesn't tend to happen with a flip of the switch. It takes time to unfold.
That's all well and good, but it doesn't change the frustration with the current situation many feel. So what to do? Grit their teeth and suck it up until they can make a change? Often, part of our early work focuses on the question, "How can I make things better, right here, right now?"
Following are several things my clients have found helpful over the years.
Commit to change
Believe it or not, the very act of committing to do something about your current dissatisfaction (and then backing that up with real steps in that direction) can lighten the load.
I frequently hear this one from clients. When they choose to take a serious step towards change by working with me, they no longer feel as trapped as they did before making that choice. And because they don't feel as trapped, the negative energy doesn't just keep building like a pressure cooker.
Do an energy audit of your work
If you can't change jobs right now, you have a choice. Either you can sit and stew about how miserable you are, or you can decide to change what you can. Tempting as it might be to paint the situation with one broad black brush, that's not especially realistic or helpful.
The reality is that your work is made up of many smaller components, some of which are grating and some of which you probably enjoy.
Your goal is to bring as much of what energizes you into your work and eliminate or at least reduce as much as possible of what drains your energy. To give you a place to start, do an "energy audit" with these two simple questions:
- What do I enjoy?
- What do I dislike?
You can think of the things you enjoy as energy gains and the things you dislike as energy drains. When you have it broken down like this, you have more to work with. Now you can ask yourself, "How can I bring more of what I enjoy into the picture? How do I minimize the energy drains?"
Make a juice menu
Your work life doesn't happen in an isolated silo. It's connected to the rest of your life. So it stands to reason that the more energy you feel in the rest of your life, the better you have the potential to feel at work.
One great way to consciously build more of what energizes you into your life is to make a "juice menu," as in, "What gives me juice (energy)?" Make a list of things you love doing, things you find engaging and enjoyable. Things that leave you feeling energized.
Brainstorm as many things as you can think of for the list. They could be as quick as a 10-minute activity or as long as a weekend (or longer). Then commit to picking at least one thing off the list every day and doing it.
Create energizing habits
Some habits drain our energy (think sitting in front of the TV watching mindless television for hours on end), while others enhance our energy. Build energy-enhancing habits into your life. Some examples are eating healthily, getting enough exercise, and getting enough sleep.
Resist the urge to try to change all your habits at once. Pick one and focus on it for 21 days. Maybe you don't eat enough fruits and vegetables, for example. Make it a goal to eat five servings of fruits and veggies for 21 days and see if it makes any difference. As one habit starts to solidify, you can build others into the picture.
Meditate
Do you ever feel like your energy is flying off in all directions (a little like a Catherine Wheel firework)? If you're like many people, going at full speed with multiple commitments, the answer is probably yes. That can be a huge energy drain.
A great way to stop the energy from being wasted and re-energize is meditation of some sort. Experiment with what works for you. A great, easy-to-digest book if you're new to meditation (and even if you're not) is Meditation Made Easy by Lorn Roche.
Shift your perspective
Let's say you're in a situation that you can't change. There's still one thing you have control over, and that is your perception of the situation.
For example, instead of "I hate this job and I feel stuck, grumblegrumblegrumble," try shifting that to, "No, this isn't the greatest job, but I like some of the people I work with, and I'm fortunate to have a paycheck coming in while I take steps towards something new."
Even the fact that you don't like it could be reframed. "Having this job that I'm unhappy with is giving me the strong incentive to make positive changes. If it weren't quite as unpleasant, I might just muddle along accepting not-too-bad for the rest of my career."
Challenge yourself to play with perspective shifting. Make it a game. Make it a creative habit of finding new perspectives when you catch yourself grumbling.
Be grateful
Finally, be grateful. Studies have shown that gratitude can have a huge impact on your happiness. Make a habit of finding things to be grateful for every day. Keep a gratitude journal. Challenge yourself to find something new to be grateful for each day, both in your work and in the rest of your life.
None of these are magic wand solutions. They won't make a bad situation fabulous. But they will increase your energy gain and reduce your energy drain, the net effect of which will be a better, more enjoyable life.
And then you can put that energy into moving towards a future that is rich, satisfying and fulfilling!
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by Curt Rosengren, Passion Catalyst
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